Teach Kids Proper Brushing with a Soft Toothbrush

Quick answer

Start by choosing an extra-soft toothbrush designed for small hands, then follow a simple step-by-step routine that focuses on gentle technique and making brushing a positive habit.

Step-by-step: Teaching proper brushing technique

1. Step 1: Set up the right tools: Give your child a soft-bristle toothbrush with a small head. Apply a rice-sized smear of fluoride toothpaste. Stand behind your child in front of a mirror so you can both see what you're doing. Check that the bristles are extra soft to avoid gum damage.
2. Step 2: Demonstrate the correct angle: Hold the brush at a 45-degree angle toward the gumline. Use gentle, circular motions on each tooth surface—front, back, and chewing top. Avoid scrubbing back and forth, which can wear down enamel. Common mistake: scrubbing too hard. Use light pressure—bristles should not bend.
3. Step 3: Brush in a consistent order: Start with the upper right molars, move across the front teeth, then finish the upper left molars. Repeat for the lower teeth. This prevents missing any spots. Spend about 30 seconds per quadrant. Use a timer or app to keep track; two minutes can feel long for a child.
4. Step 4: Focus on the back molars: These are the most cavity-prone areas. Use the angled neck of a toothbrush like the Extra Soft Kid's Toothbrush to reach the far back teeth. Brush each molar with small circles for 10 seconds. Kids often skip molars because they're hard to reach. Check these areas yourself after brushing.
5. Step 5: End with a rinse and reward: Have your child spit out the toothpaste without rinsing with water—this keeps the fluoride working. Then, clean the toothbrush and store it upright to air-dry. Praise the effort, not perfection, to build confidence. Replace the toothbrush every 3 months or sooner if bristles fray.

Product facts

• Soft Children's Toothbrush: Tom's of Maine Soft Children's Toothbrush has extra-soft bristles and a handle sized for small hands. Gentle bristles protect young gums and developing teeth while the small handle gives kids better control during brushing.

  

• Extra Soft Kid's Toothbrush: The Extra Soft Kid's Toothbrush features dye-free bristles, an angled neck, and a plant-based handle made from 99% renewable castor oil. The angled neck helps reach back teeth easily, and the eco-friendly handle teaches sustainability as part of daily care.